I hate to say it but...don't take anyone's advice too seriously. Find what works for you and your little one. As my doctor once told me when I asked about my son coming into our room at night..."If he needs to know you are there, let him do it. If he's still doing it at 17 years old, call me." :) Only true advice to follow? ENJOY EVERY MOMENT! It goes by much to fast. - gretchen, tarpon springs